Human beings are made up of stories. Our experiences, our bodies, and our daily actions are one great evolving story punctuated by millions of smaller stories. We grow into our narratives and grow because of them. Writers, who have learned the beauty and responsibility of providing those stories to others, know we must write because our stories are what keep us all alive.
Stories fuel the human spirit and return us to our humanity by expanding our empathy, compassion, education, stimulation, sense of community, and overall maturation and growth, over and over again, each new rotation improving us that much more.
Such a return keeps us alive and makes us more powerful as human beings- and as writers- and more able to share our stories with others. In every way, stories are the coil of human life, a currency of the highest order.
“We don’t just tell stories, stories tell us. They shape our thoughts and memories, and even change how we live our lives,” Sadie Dingfelder
Yet despite having an awareness that stories are life-giving, a requirement for thriving and growing, that doesn’t make the act of writing easier. In fact, many writers commonly wedge a barrier between our desire to write and our time, circumstances, and perceived or actual abilities, and sometimes the barrier (now having taken on villainously large proportions) grows into something so great, it prevents us from writing altogether.
That’s not to say that some people legitimately cannot find the time or motivation within themselves to write. Overactive daily lives, extreme emotional circumstances, authentically make it difficult or even impossible to write sometimes: living in the midst of a storm doesn’t allow much room for reflection- a necessity for the writer. Writers there may try to touch their stories in journals, notes, or even short works, gathering seeds for when they can be later planted, or they may lie fallow, letting their stories well up until they can be told.
Fear Is a Powerful Motivator
But most writers who don’t write, or stop writing, block themselves from telling their stories out of fear. They are afraid they are not good, afraid their efforts will mirror back lack of talent, afraid they will never amount to much or publish to acclaim.
They are afraid if they write, it will be hard. They are afraid that they don’t know enough, or perhaps know too much, and are afraid of the power in all they have bottled up inside. They are afraid they don’t know how to make the words come or what to do with them once they do.
Fear has felled some of the most brilliant creative minds, in a loss to everyone.
In truth these fears are fair and reasonable: it is a burden to wrestle our ideas into stories, the act of it requiring strength and fortitude. Emotionally we’re required to confront our memories, abilities, and voices, intellectually we’re required to craft them to be meaningful, intelligent, artful or funny to others, and spiritually we’re required to sustain the daily work of hazarding the self, managing dark feelings when the ideas don’t come, and coping with not having the perfect tools at hand to make the stories behave.
“Writing is the hardest way of earning a living, with the possible exception of wrestling alligators.”— Olin Miller, aphorist
When people talk about writing being hard, they are not exaggerating. Continually having to auto-generate one’s stamina in order to achieve the loftier goal of generating stories can at times feel Sisyphusian and at other times, insurmountable.
Even harder than writing, however, is not writing.
Not writing makes a person’s shoulders lower. It drains the spirit. The ideas, not released or shared, tangle into a mean ball in the mind.
Yet because inaction is easier than action, it can culminate in people saying, “I’ve always wanted to write a novel,” or “I have a great story; I’m just waiting for the right time.” And letting the sentiment trail off because they know they will not allow themselves to save their own lives- or others- for lack of knowing how to move past the doubt and uncertainty.
Mechanisms that Help Writers Tell Their Stories
Fortunately, there are mechanisms that reduce or mitigate the hardness of writing and even help it become an alleviation, a release. Leaning on what works for others, having a scaffolding of organizational tools such as these 6 writing apps, and getting support make it so the work comes, and comes more easily- and even with pleasure.
Pragmatism: The elite few who plunge ahead day in and out with their writing, regardless of their vulnerabilities or feelings of ineptitude can teach us a thing or two about pragmatism’s effect on the artist. We can take the cue from their 9-5 Joe-job outlook on writing, their getting into the chair regardless of how they feel or what happens with the work while they are there.
Community: We can also recognize our role in a broader community, psychically placing ourselves in a body of peers. One pleasant thought is that writers are everywhere. Chatting with fellow writers on social media or in a writers’ group reminds us of the value in the work we do. That staying the course is necessary and important.
Putting an infrastructure around the writing process: The lawlessness of writing stories can be daunting, but organizing a schedule and the project itself lets the art happen inside a controlled framework.
Plans, outlines, charts, schedules, and softwares serve as an external scaffolding that hold up the interior creative work as do deadlines, accountability, and following an educational program. Such things are created to make sure writers keep writing, to benefit humanity at large.
We must write to make the life we have better and more enriched for ourselves and for others. It is in its way wonderful that stories keep us alive, and we must write to live and live on our terms.
After all, where there are ideas that challenge and change, there is growth. In the end, as Joan Didion said, we must “tell ourselves stories in order to live.”
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